Reasons to Not Overreact
So, you get your head bit off. You react. If you are me, you get hurt and shrink down like a little mouse. You immediately retreat and search for ways to repair the situation. Diffusing the situation as soon as possible. Stopping confrontations. Your chest burns when there is confrontation. In your mind, {if you are me} you think - "What the heck? Why are they mad at me? What a jerk! He hates me. Dang it- how did this happen? I should have done things better.... " and the negative self talk increases. After I shrink - I pray. {at least I have that going for me... the praying part} If you are my sister, you "freak". Insults start, bridges are potentially burned as you say things you can never unsay. You defend your innocence and stand up for yourself determined to not let someone be rude to you without justification. Nothing is left unsaid, no one is left standing. When she is done, she feels remorseful - and prays for forgiveness. Here's an